Abstract: A system for discovering relationships among users of a plurality of electronic social networking and messaging platforms includes a memory for storing computer executable instructions and a processor for retrieving and executing the computer executable instructions. When the instructions are executed, the processor instantiates an application that identifies characteristics and interests of the user and compiles a vector representing the characteristics and interests of the user. The vector is compared with other vectors representing identities and interests of other individuals, and based on the comparison, a subset of the other individuals having a relationship to the user based on one or more of the other individuals identities and interests is identified. A graphical representation of an actionable list of the subset of individuals is presented to the user such that the user may select one of the individuals from the list for subsequent communication.