Abstract: A wireless communication system (100) employs a method and apparatus for activating a restrictive operating mode of a wireless communication device (101) in the event that the wireless device is lost or stolen. The wireless device has stored therein a password (205) associated with placing itself in a restrictive operating mode. Once placed in such a mode, the wireless device is only capable of contacting a restricted target device (107) as determined by either contact information (204) previously stored in the wireless device or the contents of a received message. After the wireless device is lost or stolen, a remote device (105) is used by the wireless device owner or a wireless service provider to send a message containing the password to the wireless device. Upon receiving the message, the wireless device checks for the password and, if present, automatically places itself in the restrictive operating mode.