Abstract: A method and system for connecting users via a matrix/mesh/grid/graph of intermediate relationship routing (FIG. 3, element 50), comprising creating a collective business incentive awareness through a multi layered (per service) charge system defined by the users themselves, while utilizing and harnessing the power of P2P (Peer-to-Peer)/Client-Server, Collaboration tools, 3D/2D GUI (3d bubble/Birdseye view) navigation interfaces for effectively presenting a large volume of information to users. The system allows users(100,110) to focus on specific groups or individuals in a secure, private and anonymous environment.