Abstract: An improved method and apparatus for private messaging is disclosed. In one embodiment, a first device transmits a message to a second device via a server. The message is displayed on the second device without any identification of the sender, and the message disappears after a predetermined time period and is permanently deleted from the first device, second device, and server. In another embodiment, the second device sends communications to the server indicating that the second device received the message, opened the message, and deleted the message, and the server sends those communications to the first device.