Abstract: The present invention provides a method of building relationships between two or more people. In one aspect, the present invention includes the steps of a) identifying at least one group to which individual people belong; b) identifying two or more categories within the group, each of the individuals belonging to a different category; c) providing to each of the individuals an activity or task adapted to the differences associated with the category to which that individual belongs; and d) utilizing the activities from step c) to build relationships.