Abstract: A hand-held sex aid comprising a platform with handles and with a ring positioned in a central area on a top side of the platform. Straps are attached to the ring and extend through slots to the bottom side of said platform, wherein the straps connect to each other to force the ring against a base of a phallic device, thereby securing the phallic device on the top side. A self-user can grasp the handles and position the platform in front or in back of the self-user and insert the phallic device into a body cavity. A first partner can grasp the handles and position the platform in front or in back of a second partner and insert the phallic device into a body cavity of the second partner. The phallic device can be manipulated as desired by using the handles.