Abstract: The invention provides a remote controlled and driver operated flashing sign that fastens by suction cups to a rear glass of a car, van, pickup or SUV. When activated by the driver, The Apology Stick flashes a friendly waving hand along with the words I'm Sorry. The Apology Stick is an electronic sign, powered either by batteries or wiring into a vehicular electrical system. Activation and deactivation of The Apology Stick occurs as the driver presses and then releases an On and Off switch on the remote. The Apology Stick also incorporates a second message of Thank You to credit other motorists for acts of driving courtesy.