Abstract: A hand held device is provided for use in exercising and dancing. The device has two handles, a different one of which is grasped by each dance or exercise partner during use. A connecting strut extends between the handles. The device also has a swivel to permit relative rotation of the handles. An swivel connection is achieved through use of ball type joints. The swivel connection may also permit tilting of the handle with respect to the strut. This device can be used in conjunction with most body movements, such as dancing or exercising, simply by holding the swivelling handles of the device instead of holding hands, with the minimum risk of injury to the users, thus giving a new approach to the performance of dancing and exercising whether it be recreational or professional.