Abstract: This method will allow electronic mail users to engage in an interactive dialog session without needing any other information that is required by proprietary interactive communication mechanisms, like proprietary user identifications or proprietary protocols not generally available to users who do not belong or subscribe to a particular user or technology community. The electronic mail is utilized as the “boot-strap” to locate, route, notify and the handshaking mechanism to negotiate and exchange the mutual data required to engage in a separate and distinct form of interactive communication.