Abstract: A method and system are disclosed for enabling and blocking distance and location information between callers. The method includes a subscribing caller's phone identifying the caller by name and location and initiating a request to locate (RTL) signal to a called party's phone. The called party in turn sends an enable to locate (ETL) signal back to the called party to initiate calculations for determining the called party's distance from the caller. The method also includes an ETL bypass for business relations where an employer has a need to locate the employee. The method may also include a blacklisting feature allowing the called party to block RTL from undesired parties. A disclosed computer program product triangulates the distance between callers using the transmission time between them and stationary transmitters, landline relays, and/or internet routers. An alternate embodiment may include trilateration data from GPS satellites in determining the distance between callers.