Abstract: Systems and methods for enhancing safety in social (e.g., dating) situations. These systems may provide passive intoxicant monitoring, personal wellbeing improvement, and methods for safe social and intimate interaction to enhance consensual engagement. Passive intoxicant monitoring, such as blood alcohol level may include real-time feedback regarding the user's cognitive capacity and specifically the user's capacity to engage in sexual activity. These devices, systems and methods may also improve user self-awareness.