Abstract: A personal item and detachable identity items for attachment to a user or a user's belongings is disclosed The identity items serve to identify interests, dating status, personality traits, preferences, or other vital information about a user to anyone viewing the identity items. The personal item can be any accessory generally worn by a user or attached to a user's belongings. The identity items employ an attachment mechanism to allow for frequent and easy interchangeability of identity items. The method includes customizing the personal item and identity items to allow for maximum personal expression to serve as a means to provide information about a user to anyone viewing the personal item and identity items.