Abstract: One example of this system provides the ability to setup a two-way alert notification within an IM system. All parties can negotiate on how they set up the alert and what to do when it sets off. One of the approaches presented in this invention is to modify the basic functionality of existing alert notifications, in such a way that it allows the targeted remote user to become aware that an alert has been set to report the change in his/her availability status, and enables this remote user to respond. A popup message on the targeted user's side notifies the user of this alert event.

Abstract: An embodiment provides a flexible way to categorize instant messages (IM) or instant data by segmenting them. The default category would be viewable and/or readable as currently is with no change. However, those categories which are categorized as CONFIDENTIAL and/or PERSONAL would be displayed in a hidden form. The invention is demonstrated using a CONFIDENTIAL category; however, the invention is not limited to just CONFIDENTIAL category as it can be applied to other categories as well, such as INFORMATIONAL. An embodiment of the invention allows users to view CONFIDENTIAL informational in private and data would be hidden on the receiving end until a request to un-hide is made by the receiver.