Abstract: An apparatus, system, and method for controlling remote lighting devices via radio frequency. The lighting device includes a housing, a power source, a light source, a signal receiver and a signal processor. The light source emits light in response to an appropriate signal received. The apparatus is configured to be held by human users, or attached to their person via a securing means. A system for controlling the lights includes at least one transmitter for transmitting the signal, a processor communicably coupled to the transmitter for providing instructions to the transmitter when to transmit the signal, and a plurality of lighting devices. A method includes the steps of providing at least one transmitter to transmit the signal, providing a processor to provide instructions to the transmitter when to transmit the signal, and providing a plurality of lighting devices.